Archive for the ‘Romance’ Category

How To Keep The Romance Alive In A Marriage

Friday, April 17th, 2009

Romance is an activity that cannot work without the participation of both. Sharing is really very important in a relationship.

If you have decided that romance will keep your marriage alive, and if you want to improve the romance on your marriage, you need to work out on this part. You will need to plan your romance in advance on both of your minds.

If you will be giving gifts to your partner, make sure that the gift you are giving will affect your partner. The impact to your partner must be good. Never chose a gift that will insult you partner. Tell your partner how special this gift means to you. A present may not be expensive. Choose a gift that your partner will remember. In this way, both of you will enjoy the romance and will continue to become romantic if you are able to handle it well.

Even if you think of giving gifts to your loved one, the gift you must give need not be expensive. You do not have to spend much money to be romantic. You can start a plan before your partners break at work. Then you can devote all the time in that day with your partner. You can give your partner a soothing massage, foot scrub, back rub, and do the shores together and many more worthwhile activities that will make the bond stronger. You can let your partner decide on what is the possible thing to do to enhance the romance between the two of you.

Think about something special. You can treat your partner in a local honeymoon trip. You can visit a local hotel and spend the whole day and night for honeymoon. It does not need to be expensive; you just have to make sure to include champagne, strawberries and whipped cream in your honey moon package. You can do your thing while playing a nice, romantic, mood setting music in your honeymoon suite.

You can add a special twist in this rare occasion. You can pack your partners bag and tell your partner on what are your plans in this activity. Blind fold your partner and lead your partner to the honeymoon suite. This can add thrill to your romantic relationship.

You can cook for your loved one as well. During weekend, try to give your partner a special menu that includes all the favorite food. Add some sweetness by baking sweet cakes and cookies. This will make your partner love your more.

Remember that in anything you do that most important thing is that your together.

What is Romance?

Tuesday, October 21st, 2008

In romantic love, a person feels inspired. In love nothing looks impossible. Love motivates one to great heights. To please one’s romantic love, a lover can do anything. Some romantic lovers don’t even care for their life in love. One wants to look good in one’s lover’s eyes and wants to win the love for ever. That motivates the romantic lovers.

Romance is an emotion of the heart, and it gives a new outlook to life. It makes one feel good. It makes one feel in heaven. a person in romance needs nothing more than his/her beloved. That is romance! When you look at the clouds flying across the sky, when you enjoy the setting sun, when you marvel at the beauty of the snow topped mountain peaks, you feel that no sight can better these beautiful scenes. Take a look at the faces of a pair in deep romantic love with each other and you will say – i was wrong. Romance is beautiful!

The Romance Novel

Tuesday, January 29th, 2008

Romance is the most popular type of fiction in contemporary literature, containing much more explicit sex than in any other mainstream genre. The novels do not necessarily portray weak women subjugated by men, but the 90 percent female readership participates in a virtual reality, which other fiction genres fail to focus upon.

Words and music are said to excite and turn on women more so than visuals. Explicit romantic erotica aimed at women can not, and should not be considered pornography. Women do not like to admit that they enjoy romance novels, but studies have determined that there is nothing to be embarrassed about. In fact, romance novels have increasingly found their way into women’s studies and literature classes at various universities.

The 10 Biggest Misconceptions About Romance for Men

Thursday, October 18th, 2007

When it comes to dating and romance there are some misconceptions, and some of them are really whoppers. We hate to say it, but the biggest bloopers in dating and romance are generally made by men who have big misconceptions about what their women want in the way of romance.
Here are the ten biggest romance misconceptions:
The first is that sex and romance are one and the same. Romance can and does lead to sex, of course, but to assume that the sex act is a romantic encounter just because it happens couldn’t be farther from the truth. People can have sex and not connect on a personal level at all. In fact, it happens far too often.
The second of the ten biggest misconceptions about romance is that it’s not important in a long term relationship: “She knows I love her. I’m here, aren’t I?” With that attitude, perhaps not for long. Romance must continue throughout the entire relationship or the love and the relationship will die.
Some also have the idea that it’s expensive to show romance in a relationship. What a misconception. How expensive is a walk in the park, a walk on the beach under the moonlight, a dance in the living room, or a love poem you wrote yourself and left for your loved one to find? It’s in fact often the least expensive romantic gesture and the one that came from your own hands, your own mind and your own heart that are the most romantic. Thinking otherwise is a big misconception.
The idea that all women are romantics and no men are is one of the biggest misconceptions. As with any other attitude, desire, or practice, people are individuals. Our sexist society has given men the message that being romantic is not being macho and not being macho is the kiss of manly death. Nothing could be further from the truth. A romantic man is one that is confident enough in himself that he can show his true feelings. A romantic man is loving, considerate and a good listener. Romance must come from both mates or it will not flourish.
Giving candy and flowers can heal all wounds. That is a common misconception about romance. The gesture of taking the time to choose just the right bouquet and just the right vase, or the kind of chocolates you know are her favorite can mean a lot, but trying to heal a bad wound that you’ve created by calling a florist, whipping out your credit card and having someone else deliver what it took you all of two minutes to decide on is not going to be much of anything except an empty gesture. Personalization, effort, knowing your mate and caring what he or she likes, wants or needs – those are romantic gestures. If flowers and candy are the answer, so be it. Far too often they really aren’t.
The last four of the 10 biggest misconceptions about romance is that there are romantic people and there are those that aren’t and neither can change; that you have to do a lot of preparatory work to be romantic; that the words “I love you” are enough and make everything else right; and that remembering her or him on Valentine’s Day, birthday and Christmas are enough romance.
10 inaccuracies in a man’s perception of romance.